It's difficult for me to believe, but it's now been five months that I've published here. I vividly recall my initial apprehension after posting my first entry: what the hell is coming next? Miraculously, number two happened and was followed by number three, and so forth to today. This item is my my fifty-plus post in these five short months.
Along the way, there have been challenges. Aside from the "what next?" question, other issues also surfaced. Do I discuss current events? How much personal information do I reveal? Should I address Deaf Culture concerns? If I self-identify as Deaf, queer and naturist/nudist, how do I effectively balance the three? Self-importance versus topic relevance? Trust, my brothers, the list of questions doesn't end here. The soul-searching response is a tight-rope walk full of misjudgments and mistakes. I apologize for these.
On the positive side, I've met many new and interesting men. I'm building several exciting friendships. There was even a two-month fling at a romantic relationship (it didn't pan out but did open the door to possibilities). Life is all about taking chances and accepting change. DQN In Northern Virginia is a part of all that. There is always hope for tomorrow and room for improvement.
I've also survived my own "rude awakening." Indeed, I've learned from my missteps. You see, I started this blog with no game plan. Now, I have both an outline and a schedule in place a month in advance. I understand the importance of flexibility; to "go with the flow" and keep it honest and real.
Experience has taught me that preparedness is the key to both survival and sanity. Every once in awhile, I can be a "quick study!" I thank you for your patience. I appreciate your friendship and support!
Peace! Get naked. Enjoy!
